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Do you SABOTAGE your success?

admin — Fri, 18 May 2012 17:34:31 +0000

Are you one of many individuals that consistently sabotaged their success?

Let me explain this further.

If a new position/promotion comes to you …

Do you avoid it at all cost?

Or do you embrace the challenge and give it your best?

So what does it mean to sabotage your success?

It means to hold yourself back

It means at some level you don’t believe you are good enough

It means you believe that you cannot do it

So when a wonderful opportunity presents itself you do the following.

Convince yourself that you are wrong or worse , you allow somebody else to hold you back.

Make it a MUST to end self sabotage in your life!

You were born for greatness and nothing less!

WHY DO YOU NEED CONFIDENCE?

admin — Mon, 09 Apr 2012 20:14:55 +0000

Confidence is one of the main keys for success.

To discover how to get confidence in life, is the best gift you can give yourself.

There are so many REASONS why CONFIDENCE is so important to add value to your life.

Builds your business

Builds stronger self-esteem

Builds your achievement list

Builds greater friends

Builds networking skills

Builds rapport

Builds on life

Builds on happiness

When I started to build my confidence I started to increase in …

My network skills

My rapport

My self belief

My personality

My achievements

My social life

My happiness factor

In continues to this day.

So give yourself a gift today & get some confidence!

SERIOUSLY POSITIVE MEETUP GROUP

admin — Sat, 24 Mar 2012 22:31:04 +0000

This meetup is all about YOU!

I am a Mentor, Trainer, Author and would love to impact my community on a positive level.

I am excited to facilitate this group, to empower you to feel more positive & empowered about your life.

7.30- Welcome – Intro

7.45 – Brief Talk

8.00 - Exercise

8.20- Discussion

8.45 – Teaching

9.00- Open discussion.

9.30 – Close

TEA/COFFEE/ BISCUITS.

The next meetup on 26/3 is all about…

THE CONFIDENCE GAME

What is it?

How does it work?

Why is it important?

How can you use it to impact you results?

Please bring pen/paper.

Each Meetup will be using a multitude of NLP, law of attraction, Personal Development.

We will look at several issues , these are issues that I have had major issues with in the past and have overcome.

In short in my early 30′s I was on the brink of suicide, many things were going wrong in my life, I just felt into a pit of despair and couldn’t cope.

I screamed out to GOD to save me, he did, not only did he save me , he provided a miracle , I now have a passion so strong inside that is SERIOSULY POSITIVE , that I cannot contain.

I believe I will Inspire you with my life experience & my study at the UNIVERSITY OF LIFE.

I love what I do, I love people, I thrive in meeting new people, I thrive in empowering, encouraging and equipping souls to gain the confidence they need to get their life transformed. I have come from a dark place and now walk strongly in the light. I believe it is my duty/calling to deliver my empowering messages of encouragement to you all to help you further.

I feel honored to of been chosen to do this and will give you my best and the best tools, that I have used in my life.

YOU ARE HERE TO LIVE AN ABUNDANT LIFE FILLED WITH PEACE, LOVE AND JOY. Let me help you get there.

Listed below are some of the areas we will discuss.

Social Anxiety

Positive mental attitude

The power of choices

Cost and consequences

Responsibility

Speaking with Confidence

Positive Attraction

Positive Living

Positive Thinking

Happiness Factor

Comfort Zone

Deservability

GOD Factor

If anybody has any QUESTIONS , then please get in contact, I will reply as soon as I can.

I would prefer if you confirm attendance, you can pay on the night, the fee is ONLY £7

For those that want tea/coffee at the end , you are welcome to stay and chat.

Have a positive week and I will see you all next week.

0795 103 1019.

To your Seriously Positive Life!

Don’t just think about it & speak about it go and do it!

SERIOSULY POSITIVE

Inspiring professionals to overcome social anxiety & to get strong in Confidence!

http://www.getyourlifetransformed.com

Mary

5 Ways to Overcome SOCIAL ANXIETY!

admin — Sat, 24 Mar 2012 20:25:20 +0000

Let me first explore what is Social Anxiety?

Social Anxiety in my opinion is a fear of being in any social environment, where people are involved. Listed below are some common situations that are connected to social anxiety.

Going anywhere on your own

Public Speaking

Standing out in a crowd

Attending meetings

Meeting new people

Going out on date

Introducing yourself for the first time in a group

So how to OVERCOME social anxiety and to become strong in confidence!

Well you can, as I had this issue for 30 years!

I have success with conquering the issue for the last 15 years.

Here are my top 5 Ways to overcome social anxiety.

1. SMILE at STRANGERS,.

2. Start to use peoples names from their name badge.

3. Step out of your COMFORT ZONE once a day.

4. Meditate everyday to control your breathing.

5. Send love to the people you need to connect with , this sends positive energy ahead of you!

Discover 10 Distinctions of Excellence

admin — Fri, 02 Mar 2012 21:44:39 +0000

Do you want to become excellent in what you do?

Do you want to stand out in the crowd, in what you do?

Do you desire to be outstanding as a communicator?

If yes, then the below tips may help you achieve that.

1. You are destined to exel in all areas of your life and live a life of distinction. In all areas of business, if you have a message to share with the world, then you need to articulate , communicate your message to the world powerfully, in order for the message to be received.

2. Choose to stand out in the crowd in what you do, explore more effective ways to stand out in what you do.

3. Look at what you do as an individual in your specialty and raise your own standard .

4. GOD has called you to a life of distinction , so don’t settle for anything less.

5. Make an impact where ever you go, leave your excellent behind, so you create an impact.

6. Stand out in the word where 97% of individuals are average. Become extraordinary in who you are .

7. Choose to become an achiever & seek to go to higher performance.

8. Remove toxic influences that is affecting your performance.

9. Commit to having a life of excellence in every area of your life.

10. Complete projects, to a high level, perfect what needs perfecting.

The POWER of SMILING!

admin — Sun, 26 Feb 2012 18:50:31 +0000

Have you ever noticed, when you smile , someone smiles back.

Smiling is such a great way to build rapport.

Smiling gives a powerful message that you are

Warm
Friendly
Approachable
Open
Kind

However most individuals frown , they often look full of angst.

Even if you do have trials going on in your life, it doesn’t cost you anything to smile.

You may make a persons day!

You use less muscles to smile and more muscles to frown.

A smile cost nothing, however gives much.

A smile enriches those who receive,

Without making poorer those who give.

It takes but a moment, yet the memory may last forever.

A smile creates happiness in the home,

Fosters good will in business,

And is the sign of friendship.

It brings rest to the weary,

Clear to the discouraged,

Sunshine to the sad,

And is nature’s best antidote to trouble.

Yet a smile cannot be bought ,begged, borrowed or stolen;

For it is something of no value to anyone,

Unless it is given away.

Some people are too tired to give you a smile.

Give them one of yours.

No one needs a smile so much

As he who has none to give.

My mum always told me…

When you SMILE, the WORLD will SMILE back.

Give yourself a challenge this week. No matter how you may be feeling, see how many people you can smile at.

Strangers , when you buy a coffee, at your gym, in the office, on the train. There are countless number of times in the day when you can smile at people.

Who can you make a difference to today, with one of your gorgeous smiles?

Become A Confident Communicator

admin — Mon, 20 Feb 2012 21:53:08 +0000

In order to build great relationships in business , you need to be a confident communicator.

So let us explore what is a confident communicator?

It is a number of behaviors that contribute to you projecting your confidence.

Smile,
Being assertive,
Knowing your subject,
Your physiology,
Your state

So…

How do you communicate to your world?

Do you smile when you communicate?

Confident communication to me, is all about how you project yourself to others.

Do you look at individuals when you communicate?

This is one of the areas that I really struggled with. When I was a teenager, my communication was weak and when I opened my mouth to speak, it was…

mumbles words
my hand was over my mouth
avoided eye contact
I stooped my body
I felt very nervous and anxious.

However over a period of time of being out of my comfort zone , taking l lots of action, doing lots of self development ,I have learned how to communicate with ease and enjoyment.

So,

How much do you want to be a confident communicator?
How much do you want to build great relationships?
How much do you want to conquer those difficult calls?

If the answer is a lot, 100% you desire to be a confident communicator, then give yourself a challenge..

Notice how you feel when you communciate

Notice your posture

Notice your words

If there is room for improvements, then CHANGE!

The Spirit of Exellence

admin — Sun, 29 Jan 2012 13:32:39 +0000

In order to be an excellent communicator in life, it is essential to have the spirit of excellence.

So What is the spirit of excellence?

It is when you excel in everything that you do. If you have a desire to have an excellent spirit, then you need to ask yourself a few questions…

How am I doing?

How effective and I in my chosen field?

What are my results like?

How do you feel about what you are doing?

Do you feel great knowing that you are delivering excellence, or do you have consistent doubts, that you are under performing?

So how do you get the SPIRIT OF EXCELLENCE?

As an individual on the planet you need to have a STRONG desire to go beyond what you already know to excel. To discover everything that you need to know about becoming a person with a spirit of excellence.

To be committed to excellence, to be committed to let go of your ego and be willing to accept constructive feedback.

To distinguish yourself above the rest.

Unfortunaltley for most people are happy to stay at the average level. Your peer group will either help to promote you or demote you. Majority of the human race, don’t believe in themselves and those that are close to you, if they are like this, will place their limitations on you , to block your happiness.

You will have to decide for yourself is having the spirit of excellence crucial for you and your happiness.

If so, then you will need to acquire some attributes.

Determination

Drive

Passion

Unstoppable

Resilient

Be open to make changes

Get a peer group that will install the encouraging spirit that you need.

Get in the change clinic and look at what you need to change within you.

Say bye to limitations that are holding you back.

Get a mentor to challeneg you to the next level.

What is your thought life like?

admin — Wed, 27 Jul 2011 12:10:53 +0000

The heart of a man is determined by his SPEECH. The speech of a good man reflects the RICH treasures within HIM.

Math. 12 v35-37
Have you ever considered what thoughts you have on a regular basis ?

Have you thought about the consequences they have on your life? The thoughts you have will always affect the way you see yourself and the way you engage with others.

As “thinking beings” ,when we are not having a conversation with another human being, we are thinking to ourselves .

The majority of an individual’s thoughts are usually negative and destructive to their life .
Become conscious this week of how many repetitive thoughts you have. Ascertain if the content of these thoughts are enriching and empowering to you.
If they are not then explore what you can do to change that.

Your mind is like a computer

admin — Wed, 27 Jul 2011 12:09:12 +0000

What are you feeding your mind with on a regular basis?

Do you watch TV every night?

Do you listen to GOSSIP?

Do you read newspapers?

If you do, then these resources are all CONTRIBUTING to your REALITY.

What you feed your mind with, is what will be projected out, into your reality.

I stopped watching TV more than 6 years ago, when I discovered it is a powerful hypnotic programming machine.
It is predominately filled with TOXIC information. This information is on programmes such as the daily and evening news .
This information that is fed to you, is only harmful, not uplifting and empowering , what you deserve to have.
Observe this week what you are feeding your mind